LS : Dating a guy for money ? Was i wrong ?
LS decided to poke its nose on nairaland and found a very useful material.
Calista, A young lady is trying out a guy she is not sure of. She went out with the guy before but wasn’t sure she could date the guy. After may months of not being able to catch another guy, She decided to give the guy another Chance. She called the guy and arranged for a dinner date.
Here is the exact message from our girl.
There’s this guy that has been admiring me and likes me. We hung out once but afterwards I got so busy until i agreed to see him again. We went out, dinner, movies, then a lounge, then it got so late, i wanted to go home but he wanted me to stay with him at his place then I could still leave if I wanted to, take a cab. I followed, we stayed then we both fell asleep until I got up to tell him to call the cab for me to go, he now asked if I had money which was expensive because his place was far.
I was so upset and told him he could have let me go when I was closer to my place as it was cheaper. His car had a problem. He started saying, how there was nothing he could do and all, I just stood up and walked out. When the cab came, he came downstairs too but I ignored him and entered the cab and left.
Did i over react? Was I wrong or he was wrong? And if I was wrong, what should I do? Thanks
Here goes our constructive likely scenario o what happened between Calista and the guy.
[Calista dials John to book a dinner date.]
Calista : John do you have time today ? I want us to have dinner together.
John : I think you should start by saying “hi”. Why do you always feel like you are doing me a favour by taing me out ?
Calista : I dont have time for all that now , do you want to go or not ?
John : Ok, i will meet you by 7 pm at the garage.
[2 hours later, John and Calista meets up]
\Calista : Listen John, i am not really interested in going out with you, I am just bored and needed company. You are the only person i could think of now.
John : It is ok Calista. [hoping to take her home after dinner]
Calista : Johnny, thanks for the dinner. Do you think i can stay over in your place tonight ? I will go tomorrow.
John : Sure, you are always welcome in my place.
[And they drove home to John's]
[After Much much tangoing in the night, Calista wakes up in the morning and demands that John give him 50,000 naira for her hair. John of course was not prepared for that, He refuses.]
Calista : You will give me that money. When you were enjoying last night, You forgot you will have to pay one way or the other
John : Dont forget you called me first. I wasnt ready for this.
Calista : I dont care. I need the money for my new hair.
John : What kind of hair costs 50 Grand anyway ?
Calista : That is not your business. Just give me the money.
[John Leaves and Calista goes home empty handed. She starts her laptop and opens nairaland romance section where She has Allies in lying]
Calista : Guys and girls , Do you think i over reacted ?
Sam Milla : Not at all. You did not. You over lied.
